Tao Te Ching, XV: Yielding, Like Ice About To Melt

Tao Te Ching, XV: Yielding, Like Ice About To Melt Sometimes you have to give in. Sometimes you have to give up. Sometimes, it's not worth fighting any more. Western culture is all about fighting. It's about never giving in. But sometimes it's wise and right not to fight. Take the monk who got swept out to sea. He didn't fight the current. He let is sweep him out. Then when the current turned; he calmly swam back in. Had he wasted valuable energy fighting the current he would not have had the energy to swim back. Sometimes you have to give up. Yesterday I was less fight-y than usual. I was more gentle than usual. I stopped trying to fight so hard. I softened up. And there was space for me to be softer and gentler. "Who can wait quietly until the mud settles?" Stay calm stay still don't move. "Who can remain still until the moment of action?" Stay calm stay still don't move. Because there is no fulfillment to seek - that which we are is alrea...